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08 August 2023
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“At the beginning, I watched it a little bit, just to learn, and then I watched it to masturbate”.[I7]
“When I watched it (pornography), I was with someone who proposed it”.[I1]
They also assume that the majority of young people, primarily men, consume it. For them is easy to distinguish if the man does it:
“The way some of them act speaks volumes (when having casual sex). For example, if he spanks you, or pulls your hair back, or forgets about your clitoris”[I20]
“People have mobile phones at very early ages, without any knowledge about sexuality, so they are freely watching loads of videos that may not be appropriate”.[I14]
“There are very nasty things, even women being beaten up and things like that, which I do not think should be on the Internet […] nowadays children have easy access to Internet”.[I15]
“It’s a porn for everyone; for women, men, transsexuals, and people of any sexual orientation, where everyone feels pleasure, however it is not easy to find free videos on the Internet”.[I22]
“It’s sexist and outdated, and it brings the woman down to a very inferior position, where she is only an object”.[I2]
One bisexual participant expresses anger when states that lesbian porn is not aimed at homosexual women:
“Lesbian sex is not for lesbian women; it is made for guys, because it is a fantasy of theirs that two women have sex with each other, and then they feel they are entitled to ask a lesbian couple to do a threesome with them”.[I10]
“They want to perform a sexual act like the ones they see in porno, but they can’t do that with normal women, because they see it [as] inappropriate or weird, so they go with prostitutes. They pay them, and then they do whatever they want”.[I6]
“It really bothered me a lot when some guys tried certain things because they’re like ‘uff’ [exclamation that denotes intense desire] I’m not [in] a porno video, dude! We are a man and a woman having sex; that’s it”.[I17]
“I believe that porn will have a negative impact on society. It’s a bit contradictory because we’re trying to educate our society, in the best way we can, as a feminist society”.[I4]
“What one sees at the beginning is simply the coitus, because that’s what really matters, but obviously, in time and after meeting different people, one discovers other things”.[I1]
“Ninety percent of what I know […] I learned it with my boyfriend, my first stable relationship. In fact, I did not even enjoy sex before that’.[I5]
“For me, it’s important because it’s the peak of pleasure. If I don’t finish, it’s like something is missing”.[I4]
“The first time I was with someone [having sex] … but in time, I know myself better and I’m comfortable, so everything flows and I don’t have to think or worry about anything”.[I3]
“I had to say to him ‘hey, are we having sex or are we doing porn?’ We are two people having sex, this is not only about you”.[I16]
“I tried to meet guys in the night. I was ashamed of my body and feared that they thought ‘wow, this woman is fat’… and I have been more worried about me than about enjoying that moment, and there are positions... Actually, I have felt bad, sometimes uncomfortable”.[I6]
“I have been in situations in which (guys) told me ‘if you’re coming with me you have to come prepared’, meaning ‘if you come with hair, forget about it’”.[I1]
“When my sister was 13 years old, she had a boyfriend who asked her if she was shaved and asked her to send him pictures of her pussy; he told her that, if she didn’t do it, his friends would laugh at him”.[I2]
“If I went to bed with a guy, I trimmed it because I thought that was what had to be done, and I also asked him to do it. I washed very frequently with soaps and all that, and I ended up with many infections”.[I16]
“I didn’t want to say no to him and I couldn’t say no, but I wanted him to finish because I felt horrible; I didn’t want to be there, I wanted to leave, […] even in a stable relationship I‘ve also felt that I didn’t want to do it, but I did it because he wanted to”.[I11]
“Maybe I’ve felt uncomfortable sometimes... in some cases, I’ve done something in sexual intercourse because it’s normal, everybody does it; and so, if everybody does it, even if I didn’t like it, I ended up doing it, although it never convinced me”.[I21]
“I wasn’t really into it; I didn’t really want to do it. However, for the other person I said yes, because he insisted a lot, but after we did it, I felt bad, thinking that I should not have done it”.[I17]
“[About anal sex] I didn’t like it and I wanted him to stop, but I felt that if I told him ‘hey, stop’ or ‘I don’t want to do it’ he would think I wasn’t good at sex or that I was a prude”.[I16]
“Once, a boy held my head and he didn’t tell me he was coming; it was horrible. He didn’t tell me before ‘I’ll let you know and you step aside’ or anything else; he didn’t say anything and I felt very bad”.[I19]
“For me, it didn’t make any sense, because there was no affection at all. It was rough and feelingless, with no kisses. I don’t like that. It was too aggressive. I even bled”.[I5]
Participants | Age | Marital status | Sexual orientation | Studies |
---|---|---|---|---|
I1 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | University Master’s Degree of Teacher Training in Spanish as a Foreign Language |
I2 | 25 | Single | Bisexual | Degree of Early Childhood Education |
I3 | 27 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Physiotherapy |
I4 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Criminology |
I5 | 24 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Master of Psychopedagogy |
I6 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Psychology |
I7 | 23 | Single | Heterosexual | Degree of Bilingual Primary Education |
I8 | 22 | Single | Heterosexual | Degree of Social Education |
I9 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Social Education |
I10 | 23 | Single | Bisexual | University Master’s Degree of Sexology Sciences |
I11 | 19 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Law |
I12 | 19 | Single | Heterosexual | Degree of Early Childhood Education |
I13 | 26 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Early Childhood Education |
I14 | 26 | With a partner | Heterosexual | University Master’s Degree of occupational risk prevention |
I15 | 21 | Single | Bisexual | Degree of Nursing |
I16 | 26 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Early Childhood Education |
I17 | 29 | Single | Heterosexual | Degree of Early Childhood Education |
I18 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Pharmacy |
I19 | 26 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Criminology |
I20 | 25 | With a partner | Heterosexual | PhD in Chemistry |
I21 | 27 | Single | Heterosexual | University Master’s Degree of Early Intervention |
I22 | 26 | With a partner | Heterosexual | Degree of Law |
Content | Questions |
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Sex education | How did you learn what you currently know about sexuality? |
Pornography | Do you consider that pornography influences the sexual behavior of those who consume it and that of their partners? |
Pornography | What is your opinion on pornography? |
Sex experience | Could you tell me about a negative sexual experience or a sexual encounter in which you did not feel comfortable? |
Codes | Subthemes | Themes |
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Family, friends, educational centre, pornography, prevention speeches, experience with a partner, sex education, Internet, feminist movement, teachers, social networks | Educational agents | The sexual learning process |
Social networks, current pornography, easy access to the Internet, slow learning, self-learning, non-existent parental control, taboo, wrong beliefs, experience with a partner | Barriers of sex education | |
Unidirectional pleasure, male pleasure, male dominance, stereotyped roles, female subordination, wrong learning, sexual abuse, female reification | Conception of pornography | The role of pornography in women’s sexuality |
Consumption, arousal, masturbation, lack of imagination, learning | Use of pornography | |
Feminist pornography, rejection, eradicate, change, acceptance | Opinion about pornography | |
Foreplay, confidence, innovating, mutual pleasure, sexual practices, sexual encounters, sexual consent | Conception of sexual encounter | Sexual experiences |
Socially imposed hair removal: (genital and body hair removal, obligation to wax, requirement to have sex, hygiene).Self-esteem: body rejection.Not saying no: practices with pain, aggression, humiliation, vexation, discomfort, sexual object, guiltiness, normalising the situation, pressure, non-existing pleasure, coitocentrism, termination of the sexual relation, not verbalising, unidirectional relations | Emotional experiences |
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